I was driving back from the ER in San Antonio, Texas, in the middle of the night with my toddler son when I got a flat tire. I pulled over to the side, but it was a very quiet and dark part of the interstate. At that time, I didn’t know how to change a tire, and it was before cell phones were common. I had no choice but to start walking, carrying my toddler who was medicated and fast asleep. I had probably gone no more than 100 feet when a big rig truck pulled over.
The driver told me to sit in his cab to keep warm—it was winter, and being in San Antonio, we weren’t prepared for the sudden drop in temperature that night. He said he would change my tire. I guess I was pretty trusting, but I was also desperate, knowing I had a long, cold walk ahead of me carrying a sick child. Thankfully, he was as good as his word and quickly changed the tire.
When I tried to thank him, he just said he hoped someone would do the same for his mother or sister someday. That simple act of kindness stayed with me long after the cold night had passed.
I got pregnant at 15, so I was used to people’s judgment and whispers behind my back. One day, an elderly woman approached me on the street and handed me a folded $20 bill. “Here, honey,” she said kindly, “Diapers get expensive.” I was stunned by her generosity.
Later at home, I unfolded the bill and found a small piece of paper tucked inside. It said: “You’re stronger than you think.” The words felt like a lifeline in a sea of doubt and fear. Years later, I discovered faint writing on the back—my name.
I’d never met the woman before, but her words felt personal and healing. One day, while visiting my mom, I mentioned the note. She went quiet for a moment, then smiled softly and said, “She was a neighbor I once helped when no one else would. Looks like she remembered.”
That memory reminds me how small acts of kindness ripple through time. A stranger’s warmth on a freezing night, a folded note tucked inside a bill—these moments can heal wounds words often miss.
Now, as a parent, I try to pass on that same kindness. Life can be unexpectedly hard, but a helping hand or a simple message can change someone’s path forever. In those dark times, I learned that hope often comes wrapped in the kindness of strangers.
I think of all the people out there having sex they don’t get pregnant and yet they condemn someone who does! No one should be condemned for this. I imagine Jesus’s mother went through a lot of this, even though she was perfectly innocent.